By Patricia O’Gorman, PhD
Above all, be the heroine in your own life – Nora Ephron
You’re well into the New Year, and your resolutions probably included losing a few of those holiday pounds, right? If you’re like most of us, that particular resolution is a real stumbling block, and failing to realize it is an incredible stressor.
The See Food Diet—Because You’re a Stress Eater
Yes, you know the joke: you see food and you eat it. But why do you do this? It is because you are defective and have no control? Or is it because you are under so much stress that you need some satisfaction that is pretty quick and immediate? Yes, you are a stress eater. Most of us are.
The source of your stress? Those girly thoughts, which form what one of my reviewers in The 10 Day Girly Thoughts Detox Plan calls “your inner trash talk.”
Your girly thoughts tell you to:
- stay forever young
- be thin
- be nice
- keep your partner sexually happy
- and dozens of other things on an impossible list made all the more difficult because more girly thoughts tell you to do the impossible without stumbling, without failing, and without gaining any weight.
Does this spell relief?
New Year’s Resolutions That Will Work
This year, give yourself a real gift—rid yourself from this type of thinking and the resulting self-destructive actions that come when you believe your girly thoughts. I promise you, it won’t be that hard. And we can do this together.
For the next few weeks, each blog will focus on a different girly thought, and I invite you to send me additional girly thoughts through my website: www.patriciaogorman.com, and we can address these together.
Girly Thought #1: I’m Fat
If you’re like the rest of us, you probably ate more over the holidays that you thought you should, and now you feel . . . Fat.
To help ease your anxiety, the multi-billion dollar diet industry is ramping up their appeal, hoping you will buy their books, plans, magazines—all of which offer easy, no-effort-required ways to lose weight.
So what do you do? You sign up for the plan, or buy the new book, or purchase the magazine (many of which have tantalizing desserts on the cover), and you collapse in exhaustion, feeling a wave of overwhelming feelings.
To Lose Weight and Lose Stress, Lose Those Girly Thoughts
As we said earlier, most women are stress eaters. So if you want to lose weight, you have two choices:
- Go on a diet, which will only increase your stress because you eat when you are stressed, or
- Lose the cause of your stress—those harmful girly thoughts—and commit to doing a 10-Day Detox to change your thinking, beginning with: Reducing your stress!
Make this next year about losing your girly thoughts—and watch those pounds melt away.
Now say: “Yes, I can.”
Learn more about detoxing from your negative self-talk in my book, The Girly Thoughts 10-Day Detox Plan: The Resilient Woman’s Guide to Saying NO to Negative Self-Talk and YES to Personal Power.
Watch for my next blog for another concrete action you can take to reduce your stress and increase your success in the New Year—speaking up at work!
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